Playing games: it’s always been a part of dating, and winning it means getting inside her head.
However, the one thing we have going against us is the male tendency to see things that aren’t always there, such as attraction. Figuring out whether she’s interested in you or not can be a tricky deal, but there are a few tricks to help you crack her cryptic ways.
She Doesn’t Want to Look Too Eager
Let’s face it – we’re guilty of this behavior too. Like us, women don’t want to give the impression that they have nothing going for them other than waiting for the next guy to come along.
She has a happening life, and by making herself unavailable from time to time (e.g. “I’ll be swamped with work this weekend”, “I’d love to, but my yoga class got moved to Tuesday…”), she’ll trigger your desire to chase her all the more.
It’s the “You want what you can’t have” principle in effect here. And it keeps her from looking needy.
If you want to know if she’s still in the game, ask her out a few times – but never on short notice.
Let her know a few days in advance that you want to take her out so she knows you’re not just treating her as a backup.
Be on the lookout if she’s giving you signs of hope. If she agrees in spite of her busy schedule, then things are going well.
But if she keeps making excuses even after you’ve planned ahead, then take it as a “no.”
Maybe you sent her a funny SMS the other day and you haven’t heard from her at all. Now you’re wondering, “Did she drop off the face of the Earth?”
Relax. This could still be part of her anti-neediness plan, so play it by ear.
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