Why Women Reject Men


One of the biggest dread of men (when it comes to women) is that FEAR of rejection..

So, when you do get the courage to approach her, you focus on “working hard” to make her like you and see you as an AWESOME guy.

Just when you think you’re winning her over – she loses interest, and you’re left surprised and dismissed. Then negative emotions comes in, clouds your judgment, and all you can think of is…

You’re rejected, so you must be a LOSER, right?

NO, you’re not!

Read this article on Why Women Reject Men to find out. It list 10 common reasons and I suggest you read each one. You’ll find out that sometimes, it’s not all about YOU, but about her.

Stay Alpha,

– Carlos Xuma

Title: Why Women Reject Men

After finally working up the nerve to ask a woman out, the moment arrives and there is nothing left to do but make a move. You initiate conversation, make small talk, play it the way you feel it should be played and put it out there for her to accept or reject.

And then, as fast as it began, the interaction is over in the blink of an eye. The final result is polite rejection.

While it’s a natural reaction to take the brush-off personally, there are often other issues that kept her from committing to a cup of coffee or dinner and a movie. The rejection isn’t always personal and might be for reasons beyond your control. In these situations, it could have everything, or nothing, to do with the guy.

Whether it’s just not being her type or the state of her her love life at the moment, here are…

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The Trickiest Thing About Women – and What to do About it


There’s the age-old saying that men are simple creatures. And it’s true, especially when it comes to relationships.

As long as she’s pretty, smart and won’t complicate your life, you’ve already won the dating lottery.

For women though, they have a more elaborate set of requirements that’s confusing to guys.

“Damned if you do and damned if you don’t” often applies when dealing with the opposite sex – it’s no wonder men find the female psyche baffling.

And those requirements I mentioned? Sometimes women don’t know what they really are in the first place.

For instance, you might think she wants a man who’ll treat her like a princess, worship the ground she walks on, and basically exist to serve her every need.

She may even believe the same thing too, but it’s the farthest thing from what she REALLY wants.

You can understand how confusing this is for the average guy.

But let me help you out here.

Most women have grown up believing in this going-all-out-white-knight-on-a-shiny-horse theory, but this fantasy doesn’t hold up in the real world of dating.

That’s why even if she thinks this is what she wants, she’ll actually end up bored to tears – if not freaked out – by this kind of behavior.

Worse, men who buy into this over-hyped belief end up spending obscene amounts of money on women they literally met a few days ago.

I mean, I get the idea that you should make the effort to make a woman happy, but it doesn’t apply to strangers – no matter how hot they are.

Usually, this kind of behavior comes out on the first date. Don’t be the guy who takes her out to a restaurant where the appetizers cost an arm and a leg, or any of that clichéd stuff.

Those things aren’t necessarily bad, but save it for when you’re celebrating your first anniversary. For now, you need to have a little self-respect and pace yourself.

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The Instant Attraction Trigger You Need to Learn


The easiest way to make women like you is by showing them your relationship potential. When it comes to attracting a girl, the first thing her brain is going to look for is your ability to be a good partner.

I’ll be blunt: unless you get past this barrier, she’ll never want to get naked with you.

I mean, most guys will want to sleep with a girl even if they never see each other again. That’s just how we are.

As for a woman, she’s looking for “boyfriend qualities” in a guy before he can get any further with her. One of these important traits is none other than the ability to keep her interested on a consistent basis.

And a lot of that comes from being able to keep the levity alive. In other words, you need to make a woman laugh.

This is one of the most powerful ways to make her want to get with you. Being humorous speaks of a confident personality, which is what any guy should aspire for.

Plus, a funny guy doesn’t take himself too seriously, which means he has an easy-going vibe that pulls women in.

If that wasn’t enough, consider the fact that humor and intelligence are closely linked. If you’re funny and engaging, she’ll put two and two together in your favor.

Besides, you’ve heard the worn-out phrase about laughter’s therapeutic effects, right? Well, it works in dating as well.

Pickup artists are good at taking women through an emotional ride using stories that evoke excitement and/or humor. They understand that the more a woman is amused, the easier it is to trigger all those feel-good hormones in her brain.

Ever wonder why people refer to the feeling of attraction as “chemistry”?

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Stop Being a Wuss and Get The Girl


Fact: Women dig strong men.

But it’s not always about bench pressing a couple hundred pounds or having a black belt in jiu-jitsu. Sometimes, it’s also about having a strong grip on your emotions and not cracking under pressure.

It’s that kind of inner strength that women crave. When you’ve got that rock-solid core of attitude, it doesn’t matter whether you’re a nerdy computer programmer or a scary drill sergeant.

What really counts in attracting women is being a grown-up in every sense of the word. In the back of most women’s minds, the hallmark of the ideal guy is someone who can take crap from her AND the world.

Here are a few ways you can be that man for her:

#1: Staying Frosty

That means keeping a cool head when things go wrong. Women are seriously turned off when a guy loses it just because the waiter gets their order wrong or it starts to rain when he had a picnic date planned out.

In a nutshell, being the emotionally mature man is about two basic things: having a backup plan when the crap hits the fan, and keeping your emotions in check.

You can’t expect to impress women if you don’t demonstrate basic leadership qualities that assure her you’re a stable partner.

Back when people still lived in the wilderness, surviving another day literally meant planning ahead for stuff like unpredictable weather changes and external threats such as wild animals and bandits.

And these evolutionary instincts still resonate with us to this day. What this means for you:

  • Learn to plan ahead for dates. Have a contingency plan and anticipate stuff that could go wrong so you don’t break a sweat when something comes up.
  • Read up on how to keep cool, such as books like “Anger Management for Dummies” (not to say you’re a rageaholic, but thinking clearly under emotional distress is a valuable skill any guy should learn).

#2: Turning The Tide

Nothing gets a woman hotter than a guy who not only stays cool in a crappy situation, but can also change his circumstances and come out on top.

Let’s say some drunk guy at a bar started getting in your face and calling you names. If you gave him what he wanted by reciprocating his douchebag attitude, then you’ve already lost.

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Decoding Female Behavior 101


Playing games: it’s always been a part of dating, and winning it means getting inside her head.

However, the one thing we have going against us is the male tendency to see things that aren’t always there, such as attraction. Figuring out whether she’s interested in you or not can be a tricky deal, but there are a few tricks to help you crack her cryptic ways.

She Doesn’t Want to Look Too Eager

Let’s face it – we’re guilty of this behavior too. Like us, women don’t want to give the impression that they have nothing going for them other than waiting for the next guy to come along.

She has a happening life, and by making herself unavailable from time to time (e.g. “I’ll be swamped with work this weekend”, “I’d love to, but my yoga class got moved to Tuesday…”), she’ll trigger your desire to chase her all the more.

It’s the “You want what you can’t have” principle in effect here. And it keeps her from looking needy.

If you want to know if she’s still in the game, ask her out a few times – but never on short notice.

Let her know a few days in advance that you want to take her out so she knows you’re not just treating her as a backup.

Be on the lookout if she’s giving you signs of hope. If she agrees in spite of her busy schedule, then things are going well.

But if she keeps making excuses even after you’ve planned ahead, then take it as a “no.”

Radio Silence

Maybe you sent her a funny SMS the other day and you haven’t heard from her at all. Now you’re wondering, “Did she drop off the face of the Earth?”

Relax. This could still be part of her anti-neediness plan, so play it by ear.

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